by Yolanda E Kruger
Change is never easy. It doesn’t matter whether it is in our lives, our relationships or our workplace. It requires a willingness to change, a compelling reason to change, a compelling vision as to what change would be like and even then it takes discipline to stay the course. If change is enforced upon us, rather than us being in control and willingly taking an informed decision it is all the more difficult.
by Laurice F. Egerton
I endured abuse as a child. I’m sure most people today have some scars from some sort of dysfunction in their early family life. My purpose here is not to tell horror stories, but I will tell you about how it has affected my life.
My father has always been an alcoholic. Rather than being angry with him, I felt a bit sorry for him. He is a good father to the extent that he can be. He taught us some good values. But, his addiction and relative lack of social skills led him to be distant, unreliable and angry.
by Ethan Beh
In my daily life I can see many people seeking to gain self confidence. Unfortunately by observing them, I feel that most will not achieve what they want. It doesn’t matter how much effort they put in, what books they read, what strategy they use, or which expert they learned it from.
This is because a lot of people have a misconception about gaining self confidence. To them, it’s you either have confidence or you don’t. They keep seeking for it with the expectation that one day they will finally ‘get’ that unstoppable confidence.
